I would also like to throw in here a few verses from Proverbs to cover what we do NOT want to be.
Why does it matter? Really? What does it matter if we are a good wife to our husband? I mean, he's not a perfect husband, for sure, is he?! Why should we work so hard to be such a great wife when he doesn't work that hard at being a great husband? This is what the Scriptures say:
Now that we've covered why I am doing this, what it is I am doing, and why I should do it, we can move into how I'm going to do it ;) Look for that post next!